Monday, June 8, 2015

Pretentious Poop


Main Street, Southampton


Where do you go to blow it up in civilized Southampton? You don't. You go home.  
What if you can't make it home? You look around at these uber civilized people in their uber expensive restaurants and know that crapping your pants in the privacy of your car is seriously on the table. But what if its not my car I'm driving?
There, there, THERE!! That's a Rite Aid! They know about common issues of the middle class (the Upper Class don't poop). Sure enough they had a bathroom.

Where do you go to blow it up in civilized Southampton?
You don't.
You go home.  

Bursting into the store and B-lining it straight for the bathroom, I think I knocked down one of the Kardashians, but it didn't matter; I was on a mission. Half delirious in a mincing run toward the back, I arrived into the men's room with a discounted sippy cup somehow lodged under my arm and a pair of socks attached to a hanger on my hip.
When I came out of the hallway leading away from the bathrooms, Curly, Moe, and Larry behind the counter (they're always the same nationwide), were clutching their pearls, chest and face, respectively.
It's okay. It's Rite Aid.

Saturday, June 6, 2015

Jesus and Tight Fitting Jeans


I haven’t been back to New York in forever.   Dear God it’s changed since I lived here in the 1980s - so much so, I got lost in my old stomping grounds for lack of familiar buildings and familiar queues of danger- like litter-cluttered streets backing into stoops of brownstones peppered with unfriendly, darkened windows screaming to not venture further.

I woke up this morning in my swanky east-side hotel ranked “Hip” on Hotel Tonight - The William.  Indeed, it is.  My room is a vision in white; white walls, white ceiling, white porcelain floor, white bed punctuated with just four small pillows in blue – for color.  Standing in front of the mirror, which was floor to ceiling and the entire wall, was like dressing in the white clouds of heaven - in epic IMAX mode.

As I stood there buttoning my jeans in front of Zeus, Thor and Isis, I mentally reviewed last night’s adventure.  I found myself making numerous adjustments to my clothes, my posture, the viewing angle, morphing my facial expressions with each angle shift until I suddenly realized I was breaking a sweat from all the machinations.  Something was up.

It was all the lacking real estate inside my clothes.  I was a bag man next to all these tailor-dressed fancy-pants (literally) New Yorkers.  From puberty to grave, tight-fitting clothes have become the law of the land in Manhattan, but without fail – EVER – it’s tight fitting pants.  From jeans to khakis, professional slacks to sporting gear, IT’S ALL TIGHT.  

Mind you, I’m not complaining for the visuals are like a fine wine paired with an excellent cheese on top of a tasty cracker everywhere I look.   But standing there in front of that big frigging mirror in my hotel room, I felt like I was swimming in my clothes.  Granted, in the bigger, more important picture, I don’t really care because it ranks below the things I find most important (like my character), but I did have a moment’s realization that if I stepped outside again, I may get picked up and taken to a land fill;  I look like a fashion relic in contrast to everyone here.


Clothes don’t make the man, but they sure do make the man look better.  So long as the clothes don’t define me, I see no problem with wanting to donne on some of that sexy gear myself, which had me thinking, “What would Jesus do?”  Would he in all his great wisdom, if alive and walking the streets of New York today, insist upon wearing a white robe?  Me thinks not.  He would lose his credibility as the “everyman.”  No.  If Jesus were alive and living in New York City, he would be wearing tight fitting jeans.

Thursday, May 14, 2015

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Stabbing the Sugar is a collection of my own accounts detailing the dubious cluster fuck of an intersection where life, people, and circumstance collide with the pursuit of wisdom.

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